I suppose it's possible that there are people who can get through divorce without grieving, but I sure don't know anybody who's done it. The ones who say they aren't hurting after their divorce are the ones who may, in reality, be hurting the most. Short-term marriages, long-term marriages, violent marriages, quiet/dry marriages, the leaver, the left, all involve painful grieving. Read more on Last.fm. User-contributed text is available under the Creative Commons By-SA License; additional terms may apply.